It is strange that after nine years and dozens of posts on the Northen History, I am just now making a post about the life of my mother, Elvera Catherine Wilkins. As when writing about the life of her husband, James Edward Northen, this is a point at which the statistics of censuses and birth certificates meets personal experience and anecdote.
Elvera was born in Northville, Spink County, South Dakota on April 27, 1921, the third child of Victor Wilkins and Laverna Ryman. As everyone who knew who knows, she hated her first name and it caused her to insist that all of her own children were given “regular” names. She like her middle name Catherine (probably after her maternal grandmother Katie Sitzmann), but was not allowed to. Some time before 1930 when she was 9 years old – and likely much earlier – the family moved to Warner in Brown County, South Dakota. Mom never mentioned the move but it is likely that they moved there for family support. Her mother was raised in Warner and most of the maternal relatives were still there.
Throughout the years, Mom would mention things that happened when she was growing up, and it is probable that most of these took place up in Brown County. There is a picture of her at a year old with a mischievous smile on her face which probably presages her personality as an adult. Much of her early life sounds like rural Americana. She talked about having outhouses where they used corn cobs for toilet paper and about how during the winter when it was cold they would bring the pigs in to keep warm by the stove. She remembered riding in wagons to school and one of the early days in school when another girl took scissors and cut up the new dress her mother made for her. She tells of the time during the winter when she liked a gatepost and her tongue got stuck to it.
Grandpa Wilkins’ first six children were all daughters so they had to take over a lot of the work on the farm. She said that much of the work fell to her oldest sister Lucille and her because her second oldest sister Elaine was frail and only did the work inside the house. She recalled taking out food at lunch time to men who came in to help with the harvest.
As mentioned in the previous post, in 1933 they moved from South Dakota to California. Just what Elvera went through during the rest of the 1930’s is a bit unclear. It seems that they originally lived in Westminster where they continued to do farming. Mom mentions helping to deliver eggs. It was also during this time that her older sister Elaine died of pneumonia. And, of course it was during this time that the flood which destroyed their farm took place.
It is hard to pinpoint just when Mom moved to Santa Ana. Mom (who’d always said that she wanted to be a home economics teacher) tells the story of how she had to quit Santa Ana High School in eleventh grade to go take care of her Uncle Ray and Aunt Irene’s children. Apparently, her father had to repay his brother Ray for lending him money to move out to California. Given her age of about 17, this would mean that she was probably living in Santa Ana prior to 1938.
According to the 1940 census, they were living on West Fourth St. in Santa Ana and had been there since at least 1935. Elvera is listed as the oldest child in the family at that point and the only one other than Armond, the very youngest, who was not attending school. In fact, the census lists her as working 48 hours a week for a private family, no doubt, Uncle Ray’s. It is also interesting to note that when it comes to employment, Grandpa is coded as U, meaning unable to work. Not surprisingly, with nine children to care for and an elderly mother-in-law living next door, Grandma did not have a paying job. With her oldest sister, Lucille newly married and out of the house, there must have been a lot of pressure on Mom at 18 years old to support the family.
It must have been shortly after that time that Elvera met James Northen. They were married Nov. 2, 1942 in Carson City, Nevada.